Theological Reflection Approach on Practice

Theological Reflection Approach on PracticeA written check on practice (1,500 words)Rational of the Theological Reflection ApproachI have decided to physical exercise the Imagination and Spiritual Wisdom approach to this theological reflection because it allows for a deep understanding of the experience and the feelings involved. Then it progresses into creating an image from those feelings and by questioning the image we whitethorn develop an insight to what was really happening and use theology to help us to understand this insight. Thus, leading to action or an understanding of future actions in similar events.1Thick DescriptionSomeone in the church (A) was organising a surprise party for the vicar and his wife (VW) for their 25th wedding anniversary with permission from the rest of the family. They were organising it as a friend and non as a particle of the congregation and therefore it was a non-church event. It was mentioned to people in the church as they would obviously b e invited as friends of the couple. There was an element of focus betwixt certain members of the congregation as they felt that it should have been done through church and this was expressed to the church wardens, who had alike been asked to help with the party, and A. This light-emitting diode to a disagreement between A and another member of the congregation (B) one Sunday morning before the service. This was witnessed by a few people although they could not hear what was being said. It did however turn out that this issue was resolved quickly once tensions had calmed down.The untaught occurrence came from someone (J) who had witnessed this altercation. J has been a member of the congregation for many years and has developed a close bucolic relationship with the vicar and his wife and the member of the congregation. She was concerned nearly how B had be toughened through this situation. Over the course of the week various messages had been sent via social media between A, J and various others in the congregation about this altercation, the party in general and views about it. The messages had become somewhat hurtful and not appropriate. J had become quite upset about it and went to speak to the VW to ask if A would substantiation sending messages to her. J did say that she could not go into detail about the messages and why they had started in the first place as she did not want to subvert the surprise.It transpires that the messages continued to be sent with A convinced that the surprise had be big and was placing the blame towards J. Due to wanting to keep the surprise J contacted myself. I met with J on a Friday evening in church with most of the meeting explaining what had transpired all over the past week. J was genuinely agitated and angry about what was happening in names of the messages. I allowed her to speak and reassured her that I was listening to what was being said besides clear that I was not agreeing with her public opinion ab out A although was sympathetic towards her feelings about what had happened. I was also certain that J did not like A but the reason for this was unknown to me. Others had also noticed this dislike and I mentioned this to J. I also pointed out that A was a liked person and people were viewing Js actions as not very nice. J took exception to this comment and defended what she had said and done by saying that something had happened with A in a previous church that none of us were aware of.The meeting concluded with a decision that I would speak to A and ask for the messages to stop, that I would reassure A also that J had not spoiled the surprise, J agreed that she would not respond to any messages that were sent to her in regards to the party or anything else along similar lines. We finished by praying and J thanked me for listening.Feelings2.1 Reflections on Personal Feelings of the lieuPersonally, the whole situation felt a little petty and had no feelings towards this situation and felt that this could be sorted out. Yet I was aware there would need to be further reconciliation of J and A as feelings ran deep of dislike towards each other.2.2 Reflection on Js Feelings of the SituationThe feelings that were clearly visible by J in this situation wereAnger towards A because of the altercation with BFrustration asked for the messages to stop and they had continuedShock she had been challenged over her attitude towards APower k saucily in homunculusation that no one else knew about AWhen reflecting on these feelings being displayed I felt that the underlying elements to all of this was a sense of jealousy towards A and the VWs newly formed friendship and therefore an element of displacement by J in her relationship, which was ultimately a pastoral one, with VW.ImageBased on the feelings mentioned above the image that comes to mind isThis image shows the child-like nature of the situation (the messages sent via social media), the expulsion or perceived exc lusion of one from a group, and finally the two who have paired off not being aware of the person or the feelings of the person who has been excluded.Theology4.1 scriptural PassagesThe biblical passages that reflect jealousy which could speak into this situation areGenesis 37 Joseph and his comrades being jealous of his relationship with their father.Proverbs 27.4 Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand against jealousy?Luke 10.38-42 Mary and Martha being with JesusGenesis 4 Cain and Abel and the jealousy of how God favoured themMark 1035-45 James and John asking to sit at the right and left hand of Jesus and the reaction of the rest of the disciplesReflections on the Biblical Passage Genesis 37The passage that I felt reflected this situation the best was of Joseph and his brothers being jealous. Joseph receiving his coat from Jacob is a sign of love towards his son to the exclusion of the other sons/brothers. The brothers reaction to this situation was one t hat led to Joseph being separated from his family as they sold him to be a slave.The brothers reaction could not be hidden within them but was publicly acknowledged between them and towards Joseph himself with a lack of greeting or salutation.2The selling of Joseph should not have happened, and was not actually planned but the opportunistic nature of the brothers, brought a situation to pass which ultimately was used by God for a greater purpose (Gen. 50.20). The hatching of a plan to tell Jacob about the death of Joseph had wider issues for the brother as their fathers grief was great. 3The brothers jealousy led to the pain of Joseph as a slave and then in prison. The pain of Jacob in the act of grief over Joseph, the story does not tell us of the life of the brothers and Jacob but the grief would have been a long running issue within the house hold. The brothers had to populate with knowing that they had caused this grief.Parallels between the Thick Description and Biblical Passa geIf the people in the thick description were the biblical characters it would be A was Joseph, J was the brothers, VW was Jacob and to an result I was the caravan of Ishmaelites.Js jealousy of A was great and in effect trying to sell A to me as someone who was of no value and a trouble maker. Reflecting on this now I could see that if this was to carry on then there could be great pain for VW in the long term and then the ripple effect of this amongst the church community.New Insights and ActionReflecting on the theology of Joseph and this pastoral care situation I would have addressed it in the following wayNot challenged Js behaviour towards A in the initial instance. I should have listened to the problem that was being raised and dealt with that in the way that I did. I would have then arranged another meeting with J to discuss her behaviour and attitude towards A.In a follow up pastoral care situation I would have addressed the feelings of J towards the relationship between A and VW. I would have asked her to share how seeing the relationship form made her feel and why she felt that this might be an issue. Hopefully over age she would have seen her jealousy was not necessarily something that should have been an issue. This may have taken a few pastoral encounters to come to a conclusion. There may have also been a need for a time of reconciliation between J and A and also a session between J, A and VW to discuss the feelings between the three of them. I would have been a good person to facilitate this as I was neutral in the situation and had a relationship with the people involved where there could be honestness and openness.Word Count 1563Appendix 1This situation was part of a larger situation that soon unravelled within the church community so the new actions and insights are speculative as to how I would have handled the situation if it had continued.BibliographyKillen, Patricia OConnell, and John De Beer, The Art Of Theological Reflection, 1st edn (New York Crossroad, 2014)Longman, Tremper, How To Read Genesis, 1st edn (Downers Grove, Ill. Authentic Media, 2005)Mounce, William D, The Crossway ecumenical Concordance Of The Holy Bible, 1st edn (Wheaton, Ill. 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